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Some of the hardest breakups of your life will never involve a lover. I sat down with Juanita, Jenny, and Evelyn to talk about the relationships nobody prepares you to grieve. The friendship that quietly ended. The family you love and cannot be around anymore. The situationship that wrecked you harder than anything that had a title. And the question underneath all of it, which is how you know when it is actually time to let go. We opened with Confess or Shots and made everybody name their real toxic trait, not the cute one. We played Kiss, Marry, One Night Stand. And we closed on a Hot Topic about what it means to call somebody your friend in public and then tell their business anyway. In this episode: The toxic traits we each own, and the one nobody wants to admit Why it takes most people ninety times before they leave Outgrowing your family and doing the silent removal The mother and first daughter dynamic and why it never resets Situationships that hurt worse than relationships Crying where nobody can see you and calling it strength Hot Topic: friendship, trust, and stories that were never yours to tell Chapters 00:00 Welcome, Cousins 02:00 Confess or Shots: what is your real toxic trait 15:00 Kiss, Marry, One Night Stand 24:00 The breakups that are not romantic 33:00 Outgrowing people and the silent removal 38:00 The mother and first daughter thing 41:00 Situationships and what chemistry costs you 48:00 Emotional in private 52:00 Hot Topic 58:00 Until next time New episodes every Wednesday at 8PM EST. Get the book: PleasurePrinciplesBook.com Everything else: linktr.ee/SherriShabazz Instagram: @afterhourzzx Bookings and inquiries: SherriShabazz@PleasurePrinciplesBook.com This channel is for adults. Conversations are explicit, unfiltered, and intended for viewers 18 and over. #AfterHourz #Cumfessions #PleasurePrinciples #SherriShabazz Chapter times are estimates off transcript position. Selina should scrub and correct before upload.

Married Women Are Outside Too | AfterHourz Cumfessions Why Is Monogamy So Hard? | AfterHourz Cumfessions Everybody talks about married men being outside. Nobody wants to talk about the wives. This week Nigel is back in the chair and we brought in Nia to give us the young voice in the room, because our Cousins run from 18 to 72 and the answers are not the same at both ends. We got into why married men still hunt, why married women get judged twice as hard for the same thing, and whether monogamy was ever natural or just something we were handed and told to carry. We played Confess or Shots. We played Kiss, Marry, One Night Stand. And Nigel gave the one piece of advice that actually holds up: the cheating is rarely what ends it. In this episode: Why the streets are talking about married women right now Nia on what her mother will and will not ever hear about Kiss, Marry, One Night Stand and a list nobody was ready for Nigel on where monogamy actually came from Do men take women back? We disagreed Being outside together instead of behind each other's backs The disrespect line that ends marriages, not the affair Chapters 00:00 Hot Topic: married folks be outside 00:00 Welcome, Cousins 00:00 Meet Nia 00:00 Confess or Shots 00:00 Kiss, Marry, One Night Stand 00:00 Nigel in the hot seat 00:00 Was monogamy ever natural 00:00 Advice for the ones already outside 00:00 Respect, shame, and who is watching 00:00 Until next time New episodes every Wednesday at 8PM EST. Get the book: PleasurePrinciplesBook.com Everything else: linktr.ee/SherriShabazz Instagram: @afterhourzzx Bookings and inquiries: SherriShabazz@PleasurePrinciplesBook.com This channel is for adults. Conversations are explicit, unfiltered, and intended for viewers 18 and over. #AfterHourz #Cumfessions #PleasurePrinciples #SherriShabazz

You will spend two weeks finding the right barber. Reading the reviews. Checking the shop. Asking three people who they use. Then you will lay up with a whole stranger and produce a person. This week I brought my girlfriends in. 26 years of friendship at one table, no filter and no performance. We got into how we were raised, what we would do differently, why so many grown adults are still running on something nobody ever helped them name, and the conversation nobody wants to have out loud about who you choose to build a bloodline with. Somebody in that room said people care more about the dogs they breed than the children they have. Nobody walked out clean. Me included. Sit with us, Cousins. Get the book: PleasurePrinciplesBook.com Everything else: linktr.ee/SherriShabazz Instagram: @afterhourzzx New episodes weekly. Subscribe so you do not miss the next one. Adults only. This conversation is honest and unfiltered. #AfterHourz #Cumfessions #PleasurePrinciples #SherriShabazz

Cousins, this week we're talking about something that gets people fired up every single time. Marriage is a business. Say it with your chest. Local entrepreneur Jennifer Lee Marcus joins us to break down why the fairytale version of marriage sets people up to fail, and what it actually takes to stay committed when the vision, the finances, and the day to day realities start testing you. We get into vision alignment, protecting what you build together, why "couple goals" isn't a fair standard to hold anyone to, and why choosing your partner is a decision you have to keep making, not something that happens once. We also play Kiss, Marry, One Night Stand and Confess or Shot, because we don't do a session without a little fun first. Follow Jennifer: JenniferLeeMarcus.org (verify exact URL with Jennifer before publishing) Follow AfterHourz: Instagram: @afterhourzzx Book: PleasurePrinciplesBook.com Link hub: linktr.ee/SherriShabazz New episodes every Wednesday, 8PM EST.